That's what makes us so human.
It's that vulnerability. snif ... snif......
I need a moment.........

I agree, I quit listening to my heart.
It gets me in trouble everytime.
Twice married, twice divorced

Arnothijssen,
According to Harville Hendrix, who wrote "Getting the love you want", we are attracted to mates that will help us to grow. (Heal the wounded child in psycho speak). That growth is very painfull, so we "fall in love" (love is blind) with that person until we bond with them. Then we fall out of love and the growth begins. We think why did we ever marry this witch? If you divorce that mate, you never finish your growth, and continue to be attracted to wrong mates (that will help you to grow). Your heart is making the right decision for you to grow, but it hurts. IMHO if you found a woman that your brain said was acceptable, your heart wud not be attracted to her.
We evolved from chimps to this?
Just my 2 cents.
Starkeeper